How To Deal With Family Dysfunction
Psychology Spotlight I will be the 1st to tell you I love my family. I absolutely adore my family. I don't love only in words but in action. For years I have made most of the efforts without much return. In my mind, at times, I wondered why. Who would make others a priority who don't make them a priority? I've been ignored, neglected and grossly misunderstood. I've given up entire years of my life to support them, as well as money, time, energy, and even risked my legal safety to be there for them. During pandemic, I moved to California with the number one priority to spend time with them. Guess how many times they made the effort? . . . Maybe a handful of times. I gave them the benefit of the doubt and was disappointed. I even had to drop in a time more two on some family who always claims they are busy. Really?? Too busy for family? Not buying it. This month, after Thanksgiving, I finally woke up to this fact as I cried for several days with this realizatio
